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Lisa Ro's avatar

Ooh, this is simple, but so good.

Lately I have felt like I *should* be (that's an alarm bell right there!) doing more and/or doing things more systematically/consistently. But I do notice it feels like it's coming from pressure rather than passion. I have a hard time trusting that it's okay to do things the "light" way. Is this about trusting our gut / the Universe / God that *the way* should feel easy, the burden light? Whence the guilt (and fear!) that I'm not working hard enough??

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Tabitha's avatar

Pressure vs. passion - YESSS that's good, my friend.

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Aly Prades's avatar

I’m not sure why but doing things the “light” way feels like cheating to me, which seems like the opposite of “the burden is light.”

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Lisa Nikkel's avatar

This post was little a warm breeze. What a beautiful question to ask oneself. Thank you!

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Aly Prades's avatar

Thank you, Lisa! A warm breeze is a big compliment, since my internal world is typically stormy!

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Rebecca Jantzi's avatar

This is so encouraging! Thank you! Sometimes the simplest things are more profound than we realize!

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Aly Prades's avatar

I’m glad you found this encouraging, Rebecca! I agree about the simple things being profound and just because something is cheesy or cliche doesn’t make it any less true.

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Tabitha's avatar

I needed this simple yet powerful message, so thank you for sharing it! For me, one situation I can try to make lighter vs. righter is potty training my middle kiddo. I'm releasing the pressure to do it "perfectly" and just gonna go for it in my own imperfect but manageable way, make it as fun as potty training a stubborn 3.5yo can be, and pray through the less fun parts! <3

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Aly Prades's avatar

Oh yes! Potty training is rough and impossible to do perfectly. I’d love to hear what you come up with to make as fun!

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Roshonna Plett's avatar

Aly thank you for sharing this mantra! I’m going to practice it as well.

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Aly Prades's avatar

You’re welcome, Roshonna! I’m glad it resonated with you 💛 I hope it helps ease your decision making even just a bit.

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Kate Morris's avatar

Hard but true! Thanks for writing 🙂

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